Agreed. I meant behind closed doors for the BIG issues. Didn't mean any offense.
By best friend -- I meant the concept best friend -- trustworthy above all etc.
none taken

i missed your original point, and agree. A child should be able to come to his/her parents with any issue. However, they should also know that there will be repercussions depending on the situation.
If the only thing I manage to do as a parent is instill a sense of personal responsibility, and the knowledge that you get out of life what you put into it, and my child(ren) grow up to be good contributing members of society, I will die a happy man.
