At my work, I'm kind of an elder statesman watching a bunch of millennials have to grow up.
A statement I made to one millennial (kindly) was, "Um, here is your form back, and it is filled out because I had a pen, and the parent borrowed it. However, it is usually useful when presenting a form to include a pen."
No lie. Dood, I had to. I'm sorry. It's the only way they learn. I mean did she think words were made of stickers and participation trophies? Probably.
But in any case, that is how it works. Me and the doc whose office I share are both feared and LOVED, (and also at times most certainly HATED, I can smell it in the air sometimes....)
Some learn, some don't. One chick well had not summoned me for a scheduled patient in 3 MONTHS. I was done. I said, "Look I give you sticky notes, I GIVE YOU reminders, I come up here and say, "is my patient ready" and you say, 3 minutes I will call you and the patient is GONE."
She was like, "I forget."
I was like, "WHAT can I DO to help you NOT FORGET?"
"Nothing, they just go in a room and I forget."
So I asked for her date of birth and phone number and whatnot. Then I said, "You are CAPABLE of memory you CHOOSE to forget." LOL.
The hate was THICK that day but the next day I saw my patient and like the good little behaviorist I am she got ample praise and delight from me! LOL.
They can learn. Each generation DOES learn from the one before. I was a non-conformist because blind obedience is NOT SMART and I reeducate my kid (and sometimes the teacher) every last chance I got if it was a LIE.
We get lied to ENOUGH. I never lied to my kid besides Santa Claus and that stuff. I did apologize for lying when he found out. He is also a non-conformist so when some woman told him Santa was not real (she was Jewish and having a bad day) he said, "Oh Mom... everyone has to decide for themselves if Santa is real or not.
Go in by all means, and spread the outrage wide and far. And find out where the info came from. You will be helping everyone.
Also, join the PTA, it's worth it UNFORTUNATELY. Be the one that says, "No we won't implement strip searchers for Juuls." DO IT it is coming
Anna