now that i know how it comes apart, i think a butterfly paper clamp handle would work perfectly to take it apart. the collar thats stuck on the circuit board is supposed to be soldered, and it came off when i was pulling on it. i think theres enough room between the board and the collar inside the tube to slide the paper clamp handle down into it, catch under the collar, and pull it out without any damage.
the metal cap under the plastic outer cap is simply a press fit into the tube. i used a screwdriver to pry it out, prying on one side, prying on the other, just walking it out.
im not for sure, but i'd imagine the dimple in the board collar is just to get the collar pressed back in so the buttons and screen all line up.
the fire button just sits on the plastic piece inside the tube, and the adj buttons just bend a little and pop right out.
in the meantime, im going to try to find some kind of soft touch switch to replace this ......ed clicky "sometimes i work, sometimes i wont work unless you hit me with a hammer" switch