Now we've moved to calling the uninformed and uneducated employee about vaping ignorant with a hint of small town bashing? (A new flavor!)
I come from and live in a small town. That is beauty to my wife and I before I even get to the landscape. My daughter has an accent and just received her CPA. My son also does and graduated from West Point this year and heading to med school. We enjoy the slow moving lifestyle and culture.
I was also under the impression by the OP's story that patrons were complaining. If a sweet elderly couple, pregnant woman, parents with small children, etc asked me to stop vaping in a restaraunt or public gathering place that I was earlier given permission to. I would without hesitation stop without a word. I would'nt try and explain or get in a pissing match. I would suggest that my discipline and respect would override any potential controversy. I'm 43 years old spent my lifetime in the USMC, I'm no coward and love to stand up for what is right but there are times when we must pick our battles.
Hope the best for you OP.