Messalina, you might want to consider upping the nicotine during the day at least - it might be too low for you and upping it might also help with the daytime sleepiness. You could keep the lower nic for nighttime if you find you are otherwise staying awake - remember though trouble sleeping could be because of the combination of cigarettes and
vaping in the evening, rather than just that the
juice is too high.
Strong suggestion: change your habit so that you have your evening cigarettes before the kids are in bed (remind hubby he's supporting you in reducing your smoking so maybe he wouldn't mind taking on some extra childcare duty ...) then come back inside to tuck them in etc - I think you will find that is helpful.
... in otherwords yes I am fairly sure you are at least somewhat addicted to the "at-last-I-can-relax-without-any-demands-on-me" ... and who can blame you; it is a great feeling! Just try to divorce it from the cigarette association. Good luck!
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