I just mean he cheated death like more than any other human being on earth, and no he is not a part of the military or a fire fighter or a cop, but like, having lived that lifestyle in a MUCH more minor way while quitting early, I am TELLING you that dude has life 594 guardian angels.
I also said he was a crime against humanity, and that's not really a win.
DIALECTICS BABY: You've all had THAT girlfriend, right?
Dialectics allows opposites to coexist, you can be weak and you can be strong; you can be happy and you can be sad. In the dialectical worldview, everything is in a constant state of change. There is no absolute truth, and no relative truth, either: no absolute right or wrong. Truth evolves over time. Values that were held in the past might not be held in the present. Dialectics is the process of seeking the truth in the moment, drawing on a synthesis of opposites.
Many of us tend to see reality in polarized categories of “either/or” rather than “all” or “this and that.” We are often stuck in either the thesis or the antithesis, unable to move toward synthesis. We are not able to believe in both of these propositions: “I want to be with you, and I want time alone.” Or, “You forgot to pick me up at the ferry, and you still love me.” All of us face this. It is the inability to ask certain questions that gets us into trouble: “What am I leaving out here?” and “Where am I being extreme?”
I know. It's deep. It takes a flexible wise mind. It allows me to both abhor Charlie Sheen and his antics, while also offering him a ton of compassion. He is not a happy guy. Had everything and very unhappy. That's sad, not evil.
I
started becoming a good therapist by learning most ill or unhappy people do not should out to the heavens, "I would like a HORRIBLE life." People are not BORN bent on self destruction. God knows, I wasn't. Sometimes I will even tell people things like, "So, upon exit from the womb were you shrieking, "I want to be a ....., I want to be addicted?" They say no. So I say, "Yep, crap happens and I am familiar with that. So we are going to look at the between part and figure out what went wrong. And it doesn't make YOU wrong, stupid, evil or anything else. But we are gonna have to look at it all, and you will have to be ready for that.
So yeah, people suck, are stupid, make bad decisions etc. They also often don't even know where it started. For me, had I known Ultram was addictive me and my doc would not have touched it with a 10 foot pole. I mean, stuff happens.
Like me not taking a THING stronger than Advil for going om 6 years. It can suck, but I know in my bones: with opiates, the house ALWAYS wins. Maybe not for everyone but certainly for me.
I actually fee the worst for ah, Charlie's "angels" that was a bad time period for him. Unless he was correct and they WERE his guardian angels but I bet even if they were, they wee like, "Oh dear Lord we are going to have to enter into perfect female human form and guard his every movement while he tries to O/D WE ARE GOING TO HAVE TO HAVE RELATIONS WITH HIM. OH GOD what did we do to deserve it?'
And God will be like, "Sorry angels, dialectics read all about it. I would suggest using protection also you are going to be in human form.
And one angel, named "Heather" refused and she was
thrown out of heaven to Satan's pit, and he was like, "I am assigning you to be Hillary Clinton's minion and HEATHER was like "OH GOD when I was created I never asked FOR ANY OF this!!!!" And Satan will be like, "Hey Heather I get it, you didn't ask to be created. But here you are Hillary's minion so you are going to have to look at the choices that LED to that.
DOUBLE DEEP. I better stop. Sorry y'all. LOL I all of excitement looking at my therapy books and packing and stuff.
The GIANT mountain directly behind our house in Tucson, it caught fire. I am taking it as a sign.
Anna
I am gonna call it deep but it's okay if you have some absolutes, probably most of us do which is also dialectical. Like, the husband said he would kill for me or the kid. I did not like that one bit. I was a liberal and I would have died for the kid. Now? F that. If someone comes after me they had better be ready for death because I can an would administer it. Values changed.