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Jman8

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Does anyone reading this (anyone at all) think that non-smokers were responsible for smoking bans in public? I mean, at one point, you could do it everywhere (including hospitals) and then a couple decades later, nowhere (including 3 blocks within a hospital). If non-smokers had any pull on that front, it would've changed way before the 1980's. Way way before.

In my understanding, it is solely to mostly ex-smokers that lead us down that path. Having guilt/shame with own usage, decided to project that out and make sure no one else was comfortable doing what they once did, but now don't and have guilty complex.

Our current opposition isn't ex-vapers (at least I don't think so), but they are not the non-vapers we are running into while vaping in public. I am another vaper who vapes in many places (including hospitals) and have heard zero complaints from non-vapers. But am aware that usage bans are popping up. You go to legislation forum, or witness a hearing on usage ban, and you will find zero non-vapers raising an issue on this front. None. It is opposition (ANTZ) that seeks these bans. And they are clearly taking pages from the anti-smoking playbook, to attempt to have usage bans have any muster.

Yet, here on these type of threads, we see that the complainers are, at least some of the time, fellow vapers. Methinks, that doesn't bode well going forward, as some fellow vapers will one day become ex-vapers, and suddenly whistle a different tune about the (not so) wonderful world of vaping. Becoming poster children for our opposition, exploited as in step with 'common sense' from the ANTZ perspective.

I'm sure some reading this have run into non-vapers in the wild who had hissy fit over public vaping. But please realize that is a very small minority. Just like the disrespectful vaper who is intentionally blowing clouds in people's faces. Very very small fractions of overall population. Most people in public have a live and let live disposition. For every vaper that is theoretically giving all vapers a bad name, there are a hundred more re-establishing the good name that vaping does have.

I've seen no way in these type of threads to sway opinions in any visible way. One side says it is about self control, courtesy and vaping where smoking is permitted. The other side says it is about freedom, courtesy and vaping openly to educate by example. The self control side seems to suggest that courtesy is vacant on the other side, and IMO, shaming is very visible on that (self control) side. I loathe the idea of those people become ex-vapers and carrying over what appears like a very visible shaming aspect to the vaping public. But I accept the idea that they may not and may be another member of the majority who practice live and let live philosophy.

But I would be like to be abundantly clear that for our opposition, as was case with smoking, that this is not about common courtesy, nor about public health. Those points are as superficial as "for the children" claims. It is all about shaming and cutting down usage through fear and guilt. For ANTZ, there is no way to vape in public and it not be shameful.

Which is why the vape everywhere, with respect, position still is the most reasonable position I know of.
 

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Does anyone reading this (anyone at all) think that non-smokers were responsible for smoking bans in public? I mean, at one point, you could do it everywhere (including hospitals) and then a couple decades later, nowhere (including 3 blocks within a hospital). If non-smokers had any pull on that front, it would've changed way before the 1980's. Way way before.

To the OP, I think calling a young fella a punk because he vaped in public is a bit over the top. I did tell my 18 YO son to be more discrete in the dentists office the other day but never though of him as a punk. Think of the things you did when you were that age.

Now this post.....you don't think non smokers were the cause of smoking bans?????? Really? What happened was our society decided that anything that offended any group of people must be outlawed. We no longer understand live and let live. I could write a much longer essay than yours but my blood pressure is rising and I think I might have to get into a political discussion and this is not the place.

I do however agree with your last sentence. Vape on!
 

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But I would be like to be abundantly clear that for our opposition, as was case with smoking, that this is not about common courtesy, nor about public health. Those points are as superficial as "for the children" claims. It is all about shaming and cutting down usage through fear and guilt. For ANTZ, there is no way to vape in public and it not be shameful.

Which is why the vape everywhere, with respect, position still is the most reasonable position I know of.

excellent write-up JMan! I could not agree more.

In my own view, if we let the anti-nicotine inquisition (ANTZ) affix us with the same shame label that they've plastered over smokers, we've already lost the war. We must reclaim our own image and fight against the "re-normalization" nonsense. And there is no better way to do that than adopting the «the vape everywhere, with respect» policy.
 

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To the OP, I think calling a young fella a punk because he vaped in public is a bit over the top. I did tell my 18 YO son to be more discrete in the dentists office the other day but never though of him as a punk. Think of the things you did when you were that age.

Now this post.....you don't think non smokers were the cause of smoking bans?????? Really? What happened was our society decided that anything that offended any group of people must be outlawed. We no longer understand live and let live. I could write a much longer essay than yours but my blood pressure is rising and I think I might have to get into a political discussion and this is not the place.

I do however agree with your last sentence. Vape on!


I get where you're coming from but it's not as cut and dry as that. As our science improves we learn more and more just how fragile our systems are. For example, if you wanna smoke then fine, I believe in live and let die too. However, we know that second hand smoke is also unhealthy and is detrimental to others. That wasn't always known. 50 years ago practically everybody was affected by second hand smoke weather they smoked or not because people could smoke practically wherever they pleased. Once we found out the ramifications we decided, as a society, to curtail where people could smoke. It's not that we no longer understand live and let live, it's just that over time our collective ignorance is being replaced by a sense of social responsibility. And yeah, there are those who take social responsibility way too far, to the realm of nanny-stateness, but at the same time other people shouldn't have to suffer in silence because someone else feels it's their God given right to do whatever the hell they want regardless of how it affects the next guy.
 
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However, we know that second hand smoke is also unhealthy and is detrimental to others. That wasn't always known.

And I would claim it isn't currently known. Show me evidence of harms of secondhand smoke, and I'll use same sources to show harms/danger of eCigs.

More to the point I was making, can you think of any place in public (indoors) where smoking isn't considered shameful?
 

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I get where you're coming from but it's not as cut and dry as that. As our science improves we learn more and more just how fragile our systems are. For example, if you wanna smoke then fine, I believe in live and let die too. However, we know that second hand smoke is also unhealthy and is detrimental to others. That wasn't always known. 50 years ago practically everybody was affected by second hand smoke weather they smoked or not because people could smoke practically wherever they pleased. Once we found out the ramifications we decided, as a society, to curtail where people could smoke. It's not that we no longer understand live and let live, it's just that over time our collective ignorance is being replaced by a sense of social responsibility. And yeah, there are those who take social responsibility way too far, to the realm of nanny-stateness, but at the same time other people shouldn't have to suffer in silence because someone else feels it's their God given right to do whatever the hell they want regardless of how it affects the next guy.

Dammit man...you made me reply. We constantly have to cow tow to people that have thier own opinion of what is socially acceptable. Case in point....if I own a bar and want to allow smoking or vaping, I cannot because some lefty decided it wasn't socially acceptable. My opinion is it is my bar and if folks don't like my policy, don't visit my establishment. There's a thread here about banning vaping at a vaping B&M. WTH?????
 

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I really hate when some vapers say "hey it's not ilegal" , those people don't understand that it makes non-smoker associate ecigs with tobacco cig , also farting is not ilegal , does that mean its cool to make huge farts next to people?

If we treat vaping the same as smoking, we are reinforcing the belief that it's the same thing.

We're vaping. It should not be treated like smoking. And though you can't understand it, it shouldn't be treated like farting, either.

"I don't like people farting, so you shouldn't vape" is probably the worst argument against vaping I've heard so far.
 

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Dammit man...you made me reply. We constantly have to cow tow to people that have thier own opinion of what is socially acceptable. Case in point....if I own a bar and want to allow smoking or vaping, I cannot because some lefty decided it wasn't socially acceptable. My opinion is it is my bar and if folks don't like my policy, don't visit my establishment. There's a thread here about banning vaping at a vaping B&M. WTH?????

If we leave the smoking bit to one side (dead issue on my side of the pond - can't be done by law in pubs) then I agree that if you own a bar it's up to you to decide whether or not people can vape in it.
 

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If we treat vaping the same as smoking, we are reinforcing the belief that it's the same thing.

We're vaping. It should not be treated like smoking. And though you can't understand it, it shouldn't be treated like farting, either.

"I don't like people farting, so you shouldn't vape" is probably the worst argument against vaping I've heard so far.

The question is how and when do we vape , if 1 does it with no manners then he only brings us a bad name , what we don't need while governments and health ministries all over the world are trying to ban vaping .
We had a long argument about the same issue at the Israeli forum , a guy vaped into people's faces in a music concert and got into a huge fight over it.
What bothered me about my fellow vapor that he was all in the "It's my right so s** you" attitude and just brought us more haters .
 

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The question is how and when do we vape , if 1 does it with no manners then he only brings us a bad name , what we don't need while governments and health ministries all over the world are trying to ban vaping .
We had a long argument about the same issue at the Israeli forum , a guy vaped into people's faces in a music concert and got into a huge fight over it.
What bothered me about my fellow vapor that he was all in the "It's my right so s** you" attitude and just brought us more haters .

Manners are one thing - rights are another. Is it his right to vape in Israel? I don't know the legal position over there.
 

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Manners are one thing - rights are another. Is it his right to vape in Israel? I don't know the legal position over there.

yeah legally he can vape wherever he wants , though we got our own version of the FDA trying to ban vaping completely.

here rude vapers are a bigger problem than in the states , since people here are not very familiar with ecigs ..especially after the media scared the hell out of them
 

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yeah legally he can vape wherever he wants , though we got our own version of the FDA trying to ban vaping completely

Well then - "vape loud & proud but try not to deliberately offend people" might be a good way for vapers to go. But equally vapers should vape in public so that people learn that it is a more reasonable and normal thing to do than smoking tobacco.
 

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Those that have the attitude that "it isn't illegal so I'm going to do it wherever I want" are only hastening the prohibition of vaping for the rest of us. It's that simple.

How do you figure that? Because there were so many rude vapers in '09-'10 when the FDA was illegally confiscating property tried to completely ban it?

Gotta love opinions that ignore history.
What will hasten prohibition is vapers running around pointing fingers at other vapers to give the ANTZ more ideas on things to complain about.

And once again I ask, if we aren't supposed to vape anywhere but where smoking is allowed what difference does it make if they ban ecigs to anywhere but where smoking is allowed?
That's like saying everyone should stop drinking alcohol to keep them from banning alcohol. The alcohol doesn't do anyone any good if they're not drinking it.
 

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Case in point....if I own a bar and want to allow smoking or vaping, I cannot because some lefty decided it wasn't socially acceptable. My opinion is it is my bar and if folks don't like my policy, don't visit my establishment.

Ah Grasshopper, thou has learned well and professed a profound truth of freedom! Luv, cherish and fight for it!!!
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