Maybe it's just me, but if I was told I had medical issues and quitting smoking would prolong my life I'd just quit.
blah, blah, blah smoking will kill you. I know. For this example I can't fathom why this person wouldn't stop.
I do get it. When her mother, my MIL died, I picked up smoking again. Despite having been quit for 1.5 years at that point. Despite knowing smoking was part of why my father died in his early 50's. Despite knowing that even though I helped MIL quit with an eCig some 9 months earlier, that it was too little too late for her since she had COPD but never was diagnosed (figured it out when she was in the hospital, everything fit..I just wish someone had realized it earlier! we would have pushed her more to get help). I still picked them back up like I had never quit. My eGo soon didn't cut it, even when bumping it up to 36 mg juice-which made me feel ill. I felt so ....ty each time I bought a pack, but I kept buying. I mean, it was a small price for sanity, right? I have never been a heavy smoker, so that's not nearly as bad, right?
It's so easy to down play stuff when you're addicted to it. So, I get it. And I want to help her, I don't want to bury her over this. I don't want her gone from our family. She doesn't deserve it, and neither do we. Her children don't deserve it either.