I can't add much more than has already been said, but I'll do what I can to at least re-iterate the important points.
1) These "Safe Vaping" charts are old and outdated. They were from a past era. Things have progressed. At their core they are nothing more than a plot of wattage and some take into account (thought they don't list it) the heat flux generated. If you were using an ego with an old cartomizer then yes, it would be a perfect reference. On the other hand, now days it serves little better purpose than maybe a rough starting point for those brand new to vaping.
2) How much wattage you can apply to a given setup comes down to multiple factors, the most important of which are surface area, airflow and wicking.
- Airflow is carrying the vapor (which contains the heat) away. The more airflow you have the more heat you are carrying away which in turns means the more heat you can generate. Remember wattage in the case of our resistance coils is basically just a measure of how much heat is being produced. Note I said HEAT being produced, not temperature. Those are two different things.
- Wicking is supplying the juice to the coil. If the coil stays saturated with liquid then it will only get as hot as the boiling point of the juice. As the juice is vaporized it is carrying away the heat with it keeping the coil a fixed temperature. If the wicking is inadequate then the coil will dry out, which means it can't release the excess heat as vapor, and therefore rise in temperature. This can lead to burning or scorching of the wicking material and a pretty nasty taste.
- Surface area is "spreading out" the heat that's being generated. The heat flux is how much heat is being generated in a given area. This also answers your question about dual coils. If you take a standard single say 10 wrap coil and run it at 10 watts... If you double that and run two 10 wrap coils as dual coils but only put the same wattage on it, you can effectively think of it as only running 5 watts per coil. To get the same heat flux from the dual coils you'll need to run 20 watts on them. Rather it's through more wraps, more coils, etc, the more surface area you have the more power it will take to achieve the same heat flux.
With all that said, if I run a crappy clearomizer I can't go more than 7 or 8 watts without burning.... A kayfun I can build to handle a good 23 watts or so... That's with GOOD wicking and build... I believe that's about the limits of an unmodified kayfun. On the other hand, my big dripper with large coils and airflow opened all the way up I can run 70 watts on... Even my little atomic RDA with dual coils I can push a good 50+ watts...