I have the textbook definition of a fetish. A man has to have some sort of a beard for me to find him attractive. There have been very rare exceptions, but not many. My ex- husband had to shave for a job once. Things (ahem) were few and far between and the lights had to be off.
I'm not into the Grizzly Addams look, though. A beard has to be well kept, but there must be some sort of beard. I also have a shaving fetish. I love old fashioned men's grooming items - like shaving brushes and straight razors. I look at a Caswell-Massey men's catalogue the way a guy will look at Victoria's Secret. I truly enjoy taking care of a man's beard for him.
Good thing this thread was moved to Outside. I think I am getting flushed.
And bald or shaven headed is quite fine - as long as he has a beard.
As for women - no hair anywhere except her head. It just seems so much more feminine that way.
~A