Fiance Not Happy

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Kellysleep

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Here is a thought ask her what mod she would like to have? She may like what you have but she may really want something else have her look at some different ones and even watch the youtube reviews so she can see how it functions. MVP 2.0 is really user friendly that was my first non e-go style I love it. Just take the guess work out of it by asking her.
 

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would it change your opinion if I told you that she has already given me the ok to buy it...if I buy her some some supplies for her hobby?

Duuude... She hasnt given you permission, shes challenging you....

A "you just do that honey" is actually a "are you sure you really wanna do that?"

You can now

A: show her you got a pair and that youre not afraid of her

Or

B: say "you know what it might be a bad idea afterall"

She wants you to go with option B and history shows that its the wise choice if you like to sleep in the bed at night... But if youre truly dedicated to your vaping youll show off those balls, buy your mod and sleep in the dog house that night... And the night it arrives... And ofc buy a brand spanking new vamo to calm down the beast


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6 Years and you still haven't figured out that just because something is "allowed" or "Nothing is wrong" doesn't mean it's not also future ammunition? :D

This.

If she likes your V5, get her a new one. Get a wrap for it that matches her aesthetic sensibilities. It will let her know you view her as an equal and also that you thought enough to make it hers, rather than merely as an extension of yours. Giving her a hand me down, or anything less than what you have is begging for trouble.
 

DavidOck

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Lots of good advice above :laugh:

Yeah, ask her what she'd like. If she likes the Vamo, it's certainly a possiblity. Keeping with multi-button mods, you might suggest an SVD.

Something smaller, maybe the Itazte VV3 (or two - it's only 800 mAh!) which comes in all kinds of colors, or something like the SLV VV3 (1300 mAh.) Both of those are VV/VW, pass-thru, ohm check, voltage check.
 

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Duuude... She hasnt given you permission, shes challenging you....

A "you just do that honey" is actually a "are you sure you really wanna do that?"

You can now

A: show her you got a pair and that youre not afraid of her

Or

B: say "you know what it might be a bad idea afterall"

She wants you to go with option B and history shows that its the wise choice if you like to sleep in the bed at night... But if youre truly dedicated to your vaping youll show off those balls, buy your mod and sleep in the dog house that night... And the night it arrives... And ofc buy a brand spanking new vamo to calm down the beast


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M16 helio 0,35
Galileo helio/chimbus 0,5/0,4
Bolt carto tank
Vamo vivi/protank
Kts+ igo-w 0,7


When a woman says "Just do what you want" do NOT, I repeat do NOT just do what you want.
 

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would it change your opinion if I told you that she has already given me the ok to buy it...if I buy her some some supplies for her hobby?
Uhm so we should translate the original post to say, Is it ok for me to buy a crazy expensive mod and give my GF my hand me down? Listen to the suggestion above. Buy the Vamo new for your gal and then later after a bit then get yourself that Hana. You said yourself she gave you the OKAY as long as you BUY her some supplies. I have been married for a number of years trust me on this one. She might even say "Oh that's fine." but trust me trap.jpg
 

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When a woman says "Just do what you want" do NOT, I repeat do NOT just do what you want.

See lol that’s where I'm different, I swear I had to be a salesman in a past life or something. I can convince someone they want something that they really didn’t want in the beginning.

I handed down my Vamo to my GF, and she didn't like how big it was. So I went on to show her how it worked and EMPHASIZED that it could go all the way to 15 Watts!! What is lacking in portability is made up in performance and a better vapor (Compared to the Ego-Twist). I said the battery died? Well just swap the battery out instead of plugging the whole thing up, and waiting for a charge to use it again.

And I'm tell you It must be a gift I have, but after I got done........She loves the dang thing!!......All she does is brag to her friends (Who have Ego's), about all the features, and how much better it makes everything.
 

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If this is your future wife and not just a GF, do not do this. We know when our "gift" is really a gift to you: in this case, an excuse to "need" a new toy, while giving her your hand-me-down. Buy her a Vamo and upgrade yourself later. Put some distance between her getting a VV and you getting an expensive mod.

^ Listen to this woman, she knows what she speaks! ;-) Buy your Fiance a brand new Vamo, happy wife, happy life! There is a reason this is said.
 

LEDBETTER122

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Duuude... She hasnt given you permission, shes challenging you....

A "you just do that honey" is actually a "are you sure you really wanna do that?"

You can now

A: show her you got a pair and that youre not afraid of her

Or

B: say "you know what it might be a bad idea afterall"

She wants you to go with option B and history shows that its the wise choice if you like to sleep in the bed at night... But if youre truly dedicated to your vaping youll show off those balls, buy your mod and sleep in the dog house that night... And the night it arrives... And ofc buy a brand spanking new vamo to calm down the beast


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M16 helio 0,35
Galileo helio/chimbus 0,5/0,4
Bolt carto tank
Vamo vivi/protank
Kts+ igo-w 0,7

Buuuuuttttttttt........... If he chooses option B then she might think he is a "Nice guy" and leave him for a "Bad Boy" because she wants someone she can mold into what she wants.

I guess its a lose-lose situation, no real winners. (Lol I'm Joking)
 
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Bosco

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What is she using now that she's not happy with and why is she not happy with it? I've been trying to get my wife to switch to vaping and she won't .. but that's another story. If she did vape, my wife would not like a VAMO just because it's too big. She would probably prefer something like a twist or an iTaste v3. Something relatively small, worry-free, non-fidgety, etc.

I could see her using a ProVari mini . .maybe a vaporshark. But almost everything I find cool . .she finds horrid . .so, inconceivably, I don't think should would dig something like a Hana Modz dna 30. I thought for sure she would think my microstick was cool but she just looked at it confused and asked "you smoke out of that"? , lol . .she knows it bugs me when she calls vaping smoking.
 
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