lol how did i know that would bring up some arguements.... n ya prolly shoulda said it a little different but my brains been completely shot since i found out so dont blame me about it. and i asked her to keep it but it's not going to happen so i just gotta deal with the situation for what it is. adoption for me isn't an option i'd never be able to live with someone raising my kid, already hate what's happening enough as it is