Ya think? Let's see, I've escaped coke, alcohol, and now cigarettes -- that means I don't understand addiction, huh? The POINT is that he should have told her he couldn't quit, not LIED about it for 2 yrs! I'm sure she would have been disappointed, but it wouldn't have been the end of the world -- now, she's faced with a partner SHE CAN'T TRUST, because he didn't think enough of her to be honest about his addiction, instead he hid it and lied about it.
Someone who'll lie about one thing -- FOR TWO YEARS! -- will lie about ANYTHING.
Andria
I believe there has been other posts from her about her other smoking. We are told not to attack the poster but the post. Which if you read the first post she is mad, saying nicely, that she caught her other with packs of smoke in the car.
I don't know the people other than what I have seen vas write since I have been a member. If one goes by the first post it is a person upset that she caught someone smoking. Many relationships are this way. Some people cannot accept when they do something those closest need to do the same thing. She is pretty hard core anti smoking from what I remember of her posts. Being old and lazy I am not searching for them and my memory does fail at times.
I am not judging her just responding to the post.
Reaper was a little harsh but I get it.
Sometimes it easier for a little white lie than to get the third degree. As others have stated there is probably more to it than just that. Really none of business in their personal life which I am not getting involved. It was only about the post.