He went back to smoking

[DigitalOccupation23]

I am really sorry to read this and understand your disappointment.

I can tell you from my own experience with my husband .. that if they don't take a proactive interest then it most likely will not work out.

Don't give up hope he may change his miind and give it another try. Jut don't push the issue.

Very true, you are a smart woman.. wish they all had the intuition you do!

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

IMO, if THIS isn't Already a deal breaker, icing it with dishonesty seals the deal. Someone who'll be dishonest with you about something like vaping won't hesitate to be dishonest with you about more serious issues.

Bruce in Ocala, Fl

So if they smoke and are ashamed because they are pressured they are automatically cheating and whatnot?

 

[OcalaFlGuy]

Oh pahleese. Lay off the PC garbage. He was deceitful to his significant other about still smoking and not vaping.

HE did that All By Himself.

It's called character, either you have it or you don't.
Bruce in Ocala, Fl

 

[AndriaD]

Oh pahleese. Lay off the PC garbage. He was deceitful to his significant other about still smoking and not vaping.

HE did that All By Himself.

It's called character, either you have it or you don't.
Bruce in Ocala, Fl

Yep. If someone will lie about one thing, they'll lie about ANYTHING. I want no liars anywhere near me, period.

Andria

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Oh pahleese. Lay off the PC garbage. He was deceitful to his significant other about still smoking and not vaping.

HE did that All By Himself.

It's called character, either you have it or you don't.
Bruce in Ocala, Fl

IT'S A PACK OF CIGARETTES NOT A SYRINGE OF ......, IT'S NOT A CHARACTER ISSUE IT'S A CRAZY WOMAN AND A MAN CAN HAVE A DAMM CIGARETTE IF HE WANTS TO IT DOESN'T MAKE HIM THE ANTI CHRIST

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Yep. If someone will lie about one thing, they'll lie about ANYTHING. I want no liars anywhere near me, period.

Andria

"If they will lie about one thing they will lie about anything" oh really? So what if your significant other said they think you look great but your actually hideous.. that means they are secretly Russian spies and cheat on you everyday and and plotting a terrorist attack right..? Sometimes people are just so worried because their partner is a PSYCHOPATH ANTI TOBACCO NAZI CONTROL FREAK/ STUCK UP GOODY GOODY they don't want to make waves over something insignificant and have them trip tf out.

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Yep. If someone will lie about one thing, they'll lie about ANYTHING. I want no liars anywhere near me, period.

You are just

 

[yuseffuhler]

IT'S A PACK OF CIGARETTES NOT A SYRINGE OF ......, IT'S NOT A CHARACTER ISSUE IT'S A CRAZY WOMAN AND A MAN CAN HAVE A DAMM CIGARETTE IF HE WANTS TO IT DOESN'T MAKE HIM THE ANTI CHRIST

Your caps lock is on buddy. I'm not gonna tell you what to do, but name calling isn't helping anyone out. Your impression and mine might differ, but let's have a bit of respect.

 

[roxynoodle]

I don't think she wants our input anymore since she hasn't returned to the thread.

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Your caps lock is on buddy. I'm not gonna tell you what to do, but name calling isn't helping anyone out. Your impression and mine might differ, but let's have a bit of respect.

I am aware because what has been said was utterly ignorant.

 

[yuseffuhler]

I am aware because what you said was utterly ignorant.

Are you being intentionally disrespectful to cause a stir? All I'm saying is please show a little restraint in the way you talk about people. That's really not a nice thing to say at all. Seriously though, caps lock rants are not too easy on the eyes.

 

[crxess]

I am aware because what has been said was utterly ignorant.

Someone needs to remember they are only one of many members on a forum where people will post and may not agree.
This is not entitlement to attack every post or poster or a very proper way to conduct oneself.

Please try to relax and be happy others are here for not only her, but you.

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Are you being intentionally disrespectful to cause a stir? All I'm saying is please show a little restraint in the way you talk about people. That's really not a nice thing to say at all. Seriously though, caps lock rants are not too easy on the eyes.

I'm not trying to cause a "stir" i am not happy because of what the poster of this thread posted and I felt like everyone was agreeing she shold leave her man because he smokes and she is a vapor-NAZI that puts to much pressure on him that he is actually hiding it. It's a smoke not a secret wife.

 

[DigitalOccupation23]

Someone needs to remember they are only one of many members on a forum where people will post and may not agree.
This is not entitlement to attack every post or poster or a very proper way to conduct oneself.

Please try to relax and be happy others are here for not only her, but you.

I understand that it's just crazy people are supporting her leaving her husband because he's hiding smoking because she is so controlling.

 

[Toronnah]

None of this is about his addiction.

It's about TRUST. Once it's broken, it's damn hard, if not impossible, to ever get it back.

Andria

then you don't understand addiction.

 

[Toronnah]

Very ironic how many x-smokers that vape and continue to vape after failed attempts with other smoking cessation products are so judgemental about someone that can't quit cigarettes.

 

[Cacique]

I'm not trying to cause a "stir" i am not happy because of what the poster of this thread posted and I felt like everyone was agreeing she shold leave her man because he smokes and she is a vapor-NAZI that puts to much pressure on him that he is actually hiding it. It's a smoke not a secret wife.

Did you only read the first post? If you'd read more, it should be obvious it wasn't just that.

 

[WillyZee]

I'm not trying to cause a "stir" i am not happy because of what the poster of this thread posted and I felt like everyone was agreeing she shold leave her man because he smokes and she is a vapor-NAZI that puts to much pressure on him that he is actually hiding it. It's a smoke not a secret wife.

you started your own thread about this ... really?

 

[AndriaD]

then you don't understand addiction.

Ya think? Let's see, I've escaped coke, alcohol, and now cigarettes -- that means I don't understand addiction, huh? The POINT is that he should have told her he couldn't quit, not LIED about it for 2 yrs! I'm sure she would have been disappointed, but it wouldn't have been the end of the world -- now, she's faced with a partner SHE CAN'T TRUST, because he didn't think enough of her to be honest about his addiction, instead he hid it and lied about it.

Someone who'll lie about one thing -- FOR TWO YEARS! -- will lie about ANYTHING.

Andria

 

[AndriaD]

Very ironic how many x-smokers that vape and continue to vape after failed attempts with other smoking cessation products are so judgemental about someone that can't quit cigarettes.

I don't have any problem with those who can't quit cigarettes. I have a HUGE problem with anyone who LIES.

Andria