I'm an enigma, I vape EVERYTHING at 32-36mg nic. I don't recommend it for anyone, really! Bit it's what I need.
Vaping is all subjective, I've seen people that smoked a pack a day take to 24mg, I've seen others that smoked 3 PAD take to 12mg and everything in between.
Same with flavors, I'll taste this, someone else will taste something else, and you will taste something altogether different!
It takes some effort to get it all right. We can suggest and guide you, but you are going to have to find what you like and what your body needs to get over the hump. I takes some time often, to get all the pieces together.
I'm not trying to discourage you, but to let you know it's not as easy as picking up your favorite pack and going. What works for everyone else, might not for you. What's great is we have so many options to choose from now, so it's easier to find what works!
I'm just returning myself, after a year and half off. I've had a lot of "fun" getting my pain meds sorted out, Opiod's, and with the struggles of that, and pain, it just wasn't worth the fight to try and vape at that time.
I don't fight myself about a cig, I have them, and I smoke one when I feel I need it, but I limit how many I carry so I can't get back into the habit. I'm down from 2-5 PAD to 2-6 cigs a day. I'm OK with that. As we used to say around here back in the day, "It's not about how many cigs you smoked, it's about how many you didn't smoke!" Keep that mantra and it will get easier. You will be out sometime with a cig in your hand, and hit your vape. Then it will click "These taste like crap and I like my vape better!" Then it's all down hill!