The only place I think that they should allow is without question is bars. Smoking and drinking have gone hand in hand for decades (or longer).
I agree there. Many places you can smoke in bars but not elsewhere. However, I'm moving to somewhere that doesn't allow smoking in bars or clubs, so I'd like the option. Drinking around smokers is what got me started smoking again after I'd quit, so I know that if I'm drinking, it's a really good idea for me to have something or I'm likely to end up out on the smoking porch bumming an analog.
Put a pen cap over the LED when you're out...Tell them it's your nicotine inhaler to quit smoking. If other patrons complain, the manager can tell them the same thing and all will be good.
I think the best thing you can do to not confuse people about what you are doing is to not have a pv that looks like a real cig.
Good thoughts.
Hopefully at some point soon we won't have to make all sorts of excuses & such, but I'm all for avoiding conflict. For me, being polite trumps "Ahhh my right to vape is being violated! I must protest!" I've always been a polite smoker too. I ask people if they are bothered by my smoke & will move away if necessary. And if there are children around, I don't even ask, I just get some distance.
If someone's first exposure to a PV is a conflict, that's what they are going to remember & will be more likely to have a knee-jerk objection in the future. Seriously... blowing vapor in someone's face? Seen a number of people talk about that & I'm kinda shocked. That's just so incredibly rude & childish. Okay, great, you proved that it wasn't cigarette smoke. Do you think that person is going to suddenly go "Oh, gosh, I was so wrong?!" No, they're just going to think you're rude. And next time they see someone vaping they'll have a prejudice.
My current PV looks like a cig (until my 510 gets here) & I've regretted that decision once I started reading here. Yes, you can get black cigarettes or colored ones, but I think if you have a differently colored LED, it's obvious that what you have isn't a cig. I'm pretty sure no one is going to mistake a purple LED for a lit cig.
I know people feel strongly about this, and there's nothing wrong with that. Just try to keep cool when dealing with the public. Politeness benefits us all & helps open minds. Rudeness makes things harder for all of us.
Just 2 cents - RR
Edit: Also, forgot to add... The word does seem to be getting out there regarding PVs even if people don't know the details. Have mentioned e-smoking to a few people & they all just kind of went "Oh, yeah, I've heard about that." No one was like... "OMG bizarre!" I think most people are interested in the idea & are probably for anything that's not a cig, but people who have to enforce no-smoking areas just don't know how to deal with it yet. Even if they are intrigued, they may feel a conflict about doing their job & err on the side of caution.