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Fataliya

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My oldest son is 18. I found out a while ago that he smokes. Naturally, I felt guilty because I feel he smokes because he grew up seeing me smoke.

I had him try my KR808, and he HATED it.

I had him try my Tornado, and at first, he said the TH was too much for him, and while he didn't hate it, he wasn't used to it. I told him if he ever wanted to switch, I'd buy him his own Tornado kit.

Each time I've made a new flavor of juice, I've had him try it on my Tornado, and without realizing it, he's slowly learned how to draw on it better.

He finally told me about 3 weeks ago that he didn't want to smoke anymore, and could I buy him the Tornado. I told him that when I got the extra cash I would. When he found out it was $80, he told me to forget it, but I explained that $80 to see him give up smoking was more than worth it to us.

He thought I'd forgotten all about it, but I ordered him the red Tornado on Friday, and it got here yesterday.

I felt it only fair that a prank be pulled. I called him into my room, and sat him down, and just said "I CAN'T believe you thought you'd get away with this!!" He got the MOST :confused: face, and I said "The school called me today, and I.AM.......!" He got more and more confused, and kept asking what he did, over and over, and then I just tossed the TW package into his lap. He said he didn't want to open my mail, and I told him it was HIS mail.

He opened it, and was SO excited! And after telling me he was ...... that I scared him for nothing, he opened the box and was asking us how everything went together, etc. Hubby and I schooled him on the various parts, and he ran off to charge it up.

I am SO happy that he's ready to not smoke. Even though he's still in school, he's 18 and used his own money to buy analogs, so the most I did was tell him he couldn't smoke in our home. Nagging wouldn't have helped him quit, it would have made it worse. I could only hope that he would eventually want to try the e-cig and now that he has, I can only hope that it works for him.

So, Brandan....I love you so much, and am so proud of you! :wub:

(Sorry for the long post, I couldn't help it)
 

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You have led him to the water and he has chosen to take a drink. That's all we can do and you are successful! So is he. Remember that slip ups happen and to continue with the positive support. The cigs not smoked are the ones we count.
What a smart boy you have there with you. Congrats.
 

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I started smoking at like 10 yrs old..and by around 13 or so, I was already up to a pack a day. My step-dad supplied most of my habit and the rest I'd buy from various unguarded vending machines that were common back in the day. My mom on the other hand was viciously against my smoking to the point that like all young teenagers my first thought was total rebellion. It got more ugly as the years went by and I actually left home and didn't talk to my mom for like 2 years, just over cigarettes. I honestly believe I've been such a die-hard militant smoker all these years because of the parental turmoil that I experienced at such a young age.

You both deserve the biggest praises in the world for not ganging up on your son and allowing him to make the choice and above all to quietly steer him to e-cigs. I can't say enough on this..except that I wish I'd had the opportunity as a youngster.

Just awesome!!
 

bonnienclyde

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I'm sooo glad you shared this story!

I have an 18 year old smoker, too. He lives in his own apartment, though, he's in his first year at college. (He started college at 17, yay for homeschool!LOL) Well, of course, I can't make him not smoke now that he's in his own place(which I hate, btw) and I've been trying to get him to switch to ecigs, but he hates them also.

Maybe I should get a tornado.........
 

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Even though he's still in school, he's 18 and used his own money to buy analogs, so the most I did was tell him he couldn't smoke in our home. Nagging wouldn't have helped him quit, it would have made it worse. I could only hope that he would eventually want to try the e-cig and now that he has, I can only hope that it works for him.
this thought processes makes you the best mom ever
 

Garrell6888

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I like this story. I like hearing about other young people choosing to vape instead of smoking. Being 21 (smoking since 14), I've noticed through my friends, and comming on here, that younger people are more turned off by PV's. I think it's due to not smoking for as long, which in turn is less inspiration to quit because less damage has been done. Also, maybe partly due to not wanting to be singled out, even if it's not negative.

One thing, I would say that younger individuals generally have a weaker will power. If he relapses, don't be mad or anything, just remind and inspire him to realize why vaping is a better thing. Now that he's gotten past the distaste he had for it, (a problem among many of my friends) He's on the wagon. And if he falls off, make sure vaping is still in his life, so it's in his mind often which leads to more of a will to use it instead of analogs. (This is from personal experience, I've failed 3 or 4 times, and simple things like browsing ECF makes me want to vape again)

Some personal bragging: Been off analogs for 5 days. Hopefully, my days of submitting to cigarettes are over.
 
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