Hmm, applied to both while sitting close together has found to be the most effective in studies.....![]()
Hmmm... last night I made every effort to stay away from him, so as not to antagonize or BE antagonized further. I love that line from Kahlil Gibran... "Let there be spaces in your togetherness." That works out very well I've found, rather than trying to live in each other's pocket. After nearly 27 yrs of marriage, there are actually more spaces than togetherness, but maybe that's why it's lasted so long.
Andria