is it me? or is it wrong to want to do something nice?

[DemonCowboy]

granted i snapped when i got my hand bitten because i was thinking of doing something nice, but damn, is it me? or was I in the wrong for thinking of doing something nice? granted I'm apparently not right these days but am i missing or not getting something? what?

the worst part of it is i'm in not 1 but 2 social groups w/ this person so even if they can't i've got to be polite anyway - especially in 1 group as it has meet & greets so i'm not sure what to do now except TRY to stay as far away from that person as possible.

it just infuriates me that first i tell some1 not to worry about something they cant do and start to get info so i can help and then get treated like that. i dunno either even more is wrong w/ me than i thought or...i dunno

and sorry I keep editing this but it's bugging me a lot so i'm releasing it by continuing the rant.

I just wanted to do something nice and get treated like that for it - WTF?!?!?

 

[Happy Domino38]

It never ceases to amaze me just how ignorant some people can be to others. What was your GREAT SIN, btw? Asking how much an alignment costs? Tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine and, if it was ME, I'd ALSO mention that both him and his attitude can stay RIGHT where they are and he's no longer welcome at ANY future get-togethers.

 

[malyden]

Maybe they were having an extremely bad day and didn't realize you were offering to help by asking what the cost was. They may have taken it as a snide remark. Take a deep breathe and let it go. You know you were trying to help but they refused the offer and that's ok you did try.

 

[jj2]

It never ceases to amaze me just how ignorant some people can be to others. What was your GREAT SIN, btw? Asking how much an alignment costs? Tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine and, if it was ME, I'd ALSO mention that both him and his attitude can stay RIGHT where they are and he's no longer welcome at ANY future get-togethers.

domino, have I ever told you that you are just great.
The advice is great too.
By the way demon, you can put people on your ignore list. Then the only time you see what they post is when someone else quotes them. I've never had to do it, but I know of plenty of people who have.
And, it's nice to see someone do something nice for someone else. Especially when that someone is pretty much a stranger---good for you.

 

[DemonCowboy]

thanks for the advice guys, it was a she btw domino. i thought i was being nice but oh well. i found that this morning and it struck a nerve. i just wish it didn't have to be that way but meh. sorry my thoughts are scattered as i'm in a rush thanking you all for replies as i'm about to head out the door for a bit.


ty again ppl.

 

[Happy Domino38]

Aww..thanks JJ

Hang on a second here Demon, WERE you offering to PAY for his repairs?

 

[DemonCowboy]

yes domino, i was asking so i could see what i might b able to come up with at least TOWARDS her repairs, yeah, i just didn't want to say anything until i knew what i could do. so that's y i exploded when i got the reply that it was none of my business.

 

[Happy Domino38]

Wow! Well let's hope 'her Highness' sees THIS little thread and feels like the schmuck she is. If I were YOU, I'd make SURE she sees it..send her a link to this thread by PM, THEN tell her to stick it where the sun don't shine..

 

[firefox335]

I am very confused because there are no details in your post. I guess all I can say is I hope everything is going better.

 

[keyzygirl]

Demon,I have no clue what this is about,but you know we all think your a sweety.

 

[DemonCowboy]

I am very confused because there are no details in your post. I guess all I can say is I hope everything is going better.

the original post was deleted because i erroneously posted a few PMs and got warned and the post deleted.

Demon,I have no clue what this is about,but you know we all think your a sweety.

maybe not all keyzy, there's 1 person that i think we have each other on ignore.

but tyvm i appreciate the kind words