okay, i have to jump in here and post (this is my first, so i'm no longer an ecf virgin!) because i need a WAY lot of help. i have spent hours reading all this info and am more confused than when i started. what i really want is someone to hold my hand and direct me to a place and tell me what to
buy, all inclusive one-stop shopping. i am afraid if i don't get the right thing to start with, i will give it up after a couple of tries. i don't have much patience, guess you can tell. someone? anyone?