Well, for all but the low cost part, a Provari fits the bill. Yes one will cost you, but, grab an ego adapter for it and, the extension cap, and, it will do everything you want. IMHO, it's worth the price, they are pretty tough and, reliable and, Provapes does stand behind them. They have protection for nearly anything that might happen (overheat, accidental button press while in pocket, etc...)
Mine has fallen form horseback several times, even more times out of my pocket, and once off the roof of my house and, still works perfectly, and lasts all day (16-18 hours) with the larger batteries.
With the adapter I can use anything that is either ego or 510 threaded on it, and of course I can adjust it to give the best vape whatever juice and delivery device I choose is capable of giving.
Baring that, there are some good lower cost PVs but, I don't know if they deliver on the longevity or durability like a Provari. Hopefully others that have them will chime in here and let you know how well they do.