I fully realize my youngest child, at 18 (19 in a couple weeks) is an adult and fully capable of making her own decisions. She came home with an ecig. I knew she was smoking (she straight up told me). Now she has a little green NHookah ecig thing. The Mom in me that still sees her as a baby wanted to kick her .... and toss it away. The Mom part that knows she's an adult, with her own money, and that better to vape than smoke decided she needed something better than THAT.
So she's getting one of my small ego set ups.../sigh.
I'm glad I in a way influence my child. It was probably us smoking that made her lean towards it, it was certainly my vaping that did this. But for the love of Pete why couldn't I influence her to keep her room clean or...play more video games or...
I don't want to be the Mom anymore. Am I the only one that has found themselves in this particular hot seat?
Edited to Add: she used her babysitting money, not my money. And I told her the deal breaker with getting my ego was the cigarettes have to stop.
So she's getting one of my small ego set ups.../sigh.
I'm glad I in a way influence my child. It was probably us smoking that made her lean towards it, it was certainly my vaping that did this. But for the love of Pete why couldn't I influence her to keep her room clean or...play more video games or...
I don't want to be the Mom anymore. Am I the only one that has found themselves in this particular hot seat?
Edited to Add: she used her babysitting money, not my money. And I told her the deal breaker with getting my ego was the cigarettes have to stop.