If I discovered that one of my kids was sexually active, I'd buy them condoms and put them on the pill.
If I found out they were smoking, I'd get them a PV and let them share my juice.
If I found out they were drinking or doing drugs, I'd lock them in their room and they'd never see the light of day.
Ignoring it won't make it go away, but we can try to protect them from harming themselves.
But, should they be able to buy it? Absolutely not! It's my prerogative as a parent to choose how to handle it, I know my kids better than any government agency.
Here, here. Couldn't have said it better, myself.
However, we all know that common sense means very little in America these days. Especially in a society that believes that 'it takes a village to raise a child'.
I do find it fascinating that sex causes an equal amount of lifelong issues and heartache (and costs an incredible amount of money...hello? Illegitimacy? Baby Mamas and Daddies? Welfare?) as smoking...maybe in different ways, but it's still as destructive...so it's encouraged to hand out condoms and BC in schools to kids...but can you even imagine them handing out e-cigs? It's just another ridiculous double-standard.
Why is it that a typical 'social planner' believes that they can somehow get
all kids to say "no" to smoking, but not to sex?
Personally, I'm a realist like you, Rosa. I realize that there will always be a segment of the youth population that smoke, drink, and have sex. The question is why our society is so selective about which of these three things they actually believe that they can get kids to abstain from, and/or the methods used to convince them to engage in safer alternatives?