I was a 3 ppd smoker when I quit, I did not seek out tobacco flavors, I was sick of them (and very sick, generally). I have dual used on and off in the past, it took some serious health scares to get me to take it seriously this time.
1) Making "the decision" and then learning as much as I could through detox to stay focused on
vaping, not smoking.
2) WTAs eased me from those last few cigarettes and detox was still HARD, but slightly easier. You don't have to use it forever, but the first few months it really helped me. I still keep some around for stressful situations and the husband's ongoing quit. Raising your nic level may help, too. Finding a juice you can tolerate... then actually like... (DIY was most helpful for me) is important. Finding a few "OMG" flavors really helps make vaping more appealing . I didn't try tobacco for this, IMO even NET (naturally extracted tobaccos) don't remind me of "real" cigarettes enough... If anything they would make me want a "real" cigarette in comparison, but I approached vaping as a whole different animal (with different set of expectations about what I would "get" from it and acknowledging it is never going to be the same as tobacco.) It just isn't, but in many ways vaping is actually BETTER. It's cheaper, it doesn't stink, and it can actually be AS satisfying if not more, but that takes some time. Changing my expectations helped.
I also had the realization (after dual using for years) that tobacco was ALWAYS going to be my favorite
if I dual used. I am not the type to smoke "one" cigarette and stick with that, it js not tenable for my addiction and I had to accept that. While dual use may bring SOME harm reduction, it's not as much as switching entirely. At some point I had to be the frog that ACTUALLY jumped from the log. Don't get me wrong, I've had a few "stress" cigarettes here and there (less all the time) and a few times I fell off the wagon with catastrophic failure (think, smoking a pack one day after several weeks vaping) but most of all I kept dusting myself off, picking myself up and resuming vaping ,and I can't believe how much better EVERYTHING in my life has gotten. Quitting completely is worth it, and a worthy goal.
Finally, no matter what you do, willpower and desire (and some suffering, which seems to be different for everyone) are huge pieces of the puzzle as well.
Best of luck to you, I wish you all the success in the world! You can do it.
Anna