I HATE the smell of cigarettes/smoke and I HATE the taste of cigarettes (some more than others). My father's side were all smokers and that got me started more than wanting them, I think. I had to have a drink when I smoked to tolerate the taste, and of course there are all the habitual/routine things that come with it. I miss the routine as I'm autistic but I don't miss the smoking at all. Fortunately, my bf switched to snuff (ew, to me) from cigarettes and then started
vaping with me because I hounded him about snuff, so we're in the same boat. I'd been smoking outside for 8 years and, for your health and sanity, it might be what your hubby needs to do, even though it sucks. Have you tried converting him? My guy LOVES new things and is like a kid when we get something he's never seen or heard of, so it was pretty easy for him

. We've both smoked for over 10 years and transitioned rather easily. Keep your chin up.