I skipped the second page, but read the problem. I think I might know what's going on.
The center post on the Subtank are fixed. There's no changing them. When you set it to variable wattage, it adjusts the volts according to the resistance of the atomizer. The problem is, if your center post is not quite touching the center post on the mod, or if it touches lightly, it might cause fluctuations in the resistance of the atomizer. If it's set on variable wattage mode, it will increase the voltage to meet the higher resistance, and can pretty much fry a coil.
for example, if you were vaping along at .5 ohms and 35 watts, that puts about 4.1 volts through the coil. If, however, you push the button and your device reads it at 1.8 ohms, it will put about 7.1 volts through the coil. to my knowlege, ecigs do not dynamically adjust power, they take the reading when you first hit the button, change the voltage to match the wattage, then supply that voltage for the duration of the button press. If you have a fluctuating resistance, it could first read 1.8 ohms, but when you put it on your lips, or you move it slightly, it goes back down to the .5 ohm resistance.. 7.1 volts is a lot of power to be running through a .5 ohm head.
To test to see if it's happening to you, put it in variable volt mod, and use it that way for a while. See if the coils last longer. If you get times where there's not much vapor coming out, then that's when you have connection problems. If it still burns out, then you probably have a problem with the mod itself.