I might only be posting this because of a moment of insecurity but I keep wondering about my future. This is probably the most I've opened up especially on the internet but neither of my two friends that know i'm gay are helpful (one is striaght and the other just said 'well you can go out with me'.... which wasn't helpful ><). I hope I don't regret posting this.
Quick Background:
For the longest time I have repressed my homosexuality and tried to convince myself that I'm completely straight. But even as a kid I have had crushes on boys and only until recently (slowly over the last 2 1/2 years) have I found out that my whole life I have been gay. It all makes sense; why I felt different than the other kids, why I did plays instead of sports, had this connection with another boy when I was 14 and in the woods (haha, nothing happened though). But for the longest time I would confuse the feelings I felt for those boys because of such repression of the thought of being gay. It makes me wonder, how do those guys in high-school and even middle-school come out so early? I'm starting my low 20's and I'm just now figuring this out!
Anyways I did considered myself to be bi but it seems as time goes on I have less and less interest in woman. Now this is becoming an issue as my friends want to go to places like the beach and pick up chicks. I find myself not having any interest in them and find myself checking out guys instead. I don't know what my friends would think of me being gay but they are going to catch on soon from my actions. (I can only fake it so much >< )
So that brings me to my main point, being gay how do you find other guys? If your straight you have the option of just going anywhere and throwing a few pickup lines at the opposite sex. But the same can't possibly apply to being gay. I fear being alone for majority of my life because I'm shy & gay and my lack of dating experience because im gay. Oh I'm also a romantic, I broke up with my last (and first) boyfriend because he just wasn't right for me at all. He had a thing for me since freshman year of high-school and I went out with him for what ended up being all the wrong reasons. Similar stories for all my previous girlfriends too.
Thanks for listening
Quick Background:
For the longest time I have repressed my homosexuality and tried to convince myself that I'm completely straight. But even as a kid I have had crushes on boys and only until recently (slowly over the last 2 1/2 years) have I found out that my whole life I have been gay. It all makes sense; why I felt different than the other kids, why I did plays instead of sports, had this connection with another boy when I was 14 and in the woods (haha, nothing happened though). But for the longest time I would confuse the feelings I felt for those boys because of such repression of the thought of being gay. It makes me wonder, how do those guys in high-school and even middle-school come out so early? I'm starting my low 20's and I'm just now figuring this out!
Anyways I did considered myself to be bi but it seems as time goes on I have less and less interest in woman. Now this is becoming an issue as my friends want to go to places like the beach and pick up chicks. I find myself not having any interest in them and find myself checking out guys instead. I don't know what my friends would think of me being gay but they are going to catch on soon from my actions. (I can only fake it so much >< )
So that brings me to my main point, being gay how do you find other guys? If your straight you have the option of just going anywhere and throwing a few pickup lines at the opposite sex. But the same can't possibly apply to being gay. I fear being alone for majority of my life because I'm shy & gay and my lack of dating experience because im gay. Oh I'm also a romantic, I broke up with my last (and first) boyfriend because he just wasn't right for me at all. He had a thing for me since freshman year of high-school and I went out with him for what ended up being all the wrong reasons. Similar stories for all my previous girlfriends too.
Thanks for listening