I totally understand where youre coming from.I'm not sure what brought all of us together or what "pushed our buttons" to become vapers, but it has to be more than just hearing it's better in so many ways. Wish I could figure what it was, as I socialize with so many smokers daily.
Our smoking buddies are still our buddies.

Here's my slant
Traditionally, smokers have always been a tight-knit group. Taking time out for a smoke break has always been a relaxing social event ... even with those who we have never met before.
You can walk up to smoker who is a total stranger and say Hey buddy...Can I bum a smoke? We all have been "out" and needed a smoke and can depend on another smoker.
Long before we were herded outside into corrals to take smoke breaks...We were buddies ... Banned to take our breaks in those corrals just brought us closer together.
Smokers have been pushed around and degraded for a long time. We've been told that we are nothing but a smoker. Those who quit and returned to smoking have been referred to as nothing but a smoker with no will power.
Those with a Quit or Die attitude ticks us off because they are referring to all who smoke including our smoking buddies.
Vapers didn't stop smoking ... We just stopped smoking tobacco. Our buddies are still our buddies and we didn't turn in to one of those "reformed" smokers we hated to see coming back in the days when we smoked tobacco.
Vapers are drawn together because we are all smoking buddies. We dont need to know each other personally. We are buddies (friends). We may disagree with each other about this or that However; an attack on our movement is a personal attack. Not just against us but the lives of those that could be saved.
PS: Yea, I know we shouldn't use the word "smoking" when
referring to vaping. I used the S word only to make a point.
I promise not to do it again