Not everyone is the same, different skin types, different facial hair. There is a learning curve going in to using an old double edge razor. But that is what makes the outcome so much better. I can tell you the single best thing you can do is ditch the can of goo. At your local grocery or drug store you will find a Vangerhagen starter kit (soap, brush, bowl). It is pretty inexpensive and works really well for what it is. The pink soap has a weird smell to me, just so you know.
The razor and blades, this is the hard part. There is no single go to setup as everyones face is different. I got pretty lucky, the best razor I have is a '57 Gillette that I got off of ebay for $15, and the blades I can use the Wilkinson Swords stocked everywhere, and Gillette yellows made in Russia.
Razor - one time buy - $15
Blades - Wilkinson Swords - $1.75 for 10 (each blade lasts about a week or so for me)
soap - Van der hagen - $1.59 (lasts months)
As those guys are fond of saying YMMV (your mileage may vary)
Sorry for throwing this thread way off topic.