It's been a bit of a roller coaster for a while... I've completely quit all nicotine... I miss House Blend.... Badly... But, I needed to give it up.
Hmmm... We're going to get SNOW today! So "they" say. A whole inch that will be gone by tomorrow.... And schools are already shutting down for tomorrow and dismissing early today.
The missus and I finalized our divorce on Dec 5th. Things had been sliding down hill between us for a few years. And once I moved out and took an objective look at life, I realized it had been less than stellar for about ten years... She has custody of the kids, but she and I do pretty well discussing most things regarding them. Visitation has been pretty uneventful. I bought myself a small 3br house a few months ago. It's been an adventure starting from scratch. I left her almost everything because I knew if I fought for too much, it would just hurt the kids.
Speaking of the kids, they're doing ok. Not great... but ok. Kat is doing good. She just turned 17, if you can believe it. She still isnt driving yet. But that's another point of contention I have with the ex. She had to give up softball so she could focus on singing in the school chorus. It's crazy to hear that group. They put on Les Miserables last year. It was amazing. There was even a spot in the Christmas show where I caught Kat's voice alone, and it brought me to tears. Melanie is now doing archery. She's really good too! She averages about 255-260 points out of 300 every competition. The team is actually going to state here in a few weeks. CJ is still playing soccer and loving it. He's gotten so good too. It's amazing.
We just found out two weeks ago that the contract my company had with Google has been underbid by another company. We're going to be closing the Charlotte office early March. So, I'm job hunting again. There are several things that COULD happen that would let me keep working here, but I'm not optimistic yet.
My mom is trying to get me to foster a dog from the breeder/trainer she works for. He breeds Belgian Malinois. They are awesome dogs, but I just cant right now. Between no fenced in yard and the prospect of losing my job, it's just not an option yet.
But, otherwise, I've been devoting a lot of time getting the house together. And when I do have the kids, I've been taking them to do all the things I've been wanting to do with them for years, but was never allowed to. Theyve now been to a hot air balloon festival, a fall fest, amusment parks... If money works out just right, I'm going to take them indoor skydiving as a joint birthday present. There's an auto fair coming up, and CJ LOVES exotic cars now.