What I hate is not the smell of cigarettes but the smell of recently-former smokers now vapors using the language of the anti smokers: stinky, smelly, ashtray-breath smokers. That's what I hate to hear.
I think you are being overly harsh. Most of those who have posted are merely stating how surprised they are at what people have been telling them for years. Lots are also saying how they will never say those things to smokers intentionally.
One of the main reasons I wanted an e-cig was so my wife would quit her whining. Now that I quit I can barely wait till the smell disgusts me like it did her. I keep telling myself that once I hit 2, 3 or maybe 4 weeks I will smoke an analog just to see if I puke or gag like some here have. I think it will be kinda funny. Doesnt mean I will go making mean comments to smokers. Actually, I will do the opposite and inform them of our fun new addiction.