No, I'm not.
In fact, I think you are more than just a douche if you look down on people for smoking cigs....especially up until you started vaping, you smoked cigs for god knows how long.
A lot worse than just a typical douche, to me.
As far as I'm concerned....a bad habit worse than drug use, worse than cigarette smoking....worse than biting your nails.....worse than just about ANYTHING (besides being violent), is a judgmental person.
And one thing judgmental people ALWAYS say to justify their poor, inexcusable behavior is "Oh, its natural. EVERYONE judges"
No....everyone doesn't.
Not trying to be mean to you, but YOU decided to make this thread.....so I'm going to be brutally honest.
We all have character flaws.....but some of us prefer to put a LOT of effort into practicing mindfulness, and growing as a person. Judging others holds YOU back more than you could EVER imagine.....and it really isn't until you TRULY stop judging others that you will see just how BETTER you start to feel about yourself, others, and the world around you.
I'm glad that you at least realize your negative behavior.... but instead of trying to justify it (and I'm not saying that you are...), you should realize it isn't productive or beneficial, and work on replacing your judgmental thoughts with a positive outlook and attitude towards others.
We are all in this world together.....and it isn't easy for ANYONE. Most of us are doing the best we can, and to be honest....just to be a HUMAN BEING is worthy of respect. To live a human life is a tremendous feat, to pass through the gates of birth, childhood, young adult, adulthood, old age, and eventually death......is a great challenge for all of us.
Appreciate your fellow human being
oh the irony....
everyone *does* judge and you just proved it by lecturing another person on how you think they should behave/live/think....
that possibly just started the thread in jest
