Appreciate the reply, Ralph - I'm playing around with modeling the circuit in a SPICE simulator, now - they only had the irf520 in the database, though
If the FET you are using can use full battery voltage, you can wire the + of the regulator to the output of the FET, have the FET power up the regulator and move the atty to the regulator output.
Basically, if you have the 5v regulator in now, power it up with the FET.