Nightseer, I respect and admire that AA has worked well for you and your husband. That is great, It really is. Practically every male in my family is an alcoholic so I know a little bit about this.
For me, AA was great untill it was time to leave the group and then the wild parties and guilt took place. Since then I have retrained my habits so that I can drink at a party like any other moderately drinking human being can. AA works for a lot of people and thats great. Although it didn't work for me, im glad it does help some people.
But saying that everything thebuss says from the point of his comment forward is moronic, is even more moronic on your part. I could sit here and type up at least 2 pages of stuff myself about how AA doesn't work for me and how stupid it is but it would be irrelevant, wouldn't it? Because what works for you doesn't work for me. Thats why there are hundreds of different systems to break alcoholism as well as the systems in place to quit nicotine.
I couldn't start getting healthier untill I aligned myself with people that had the same healthier attitude. I.E. AA was a big fail, for me.
Bottom line: slamming somone for their opinons on AA is almost as bad for slamming someone because of their religious beliefs, and is also completely off topic. This forum is about vapin.