I think if I had been planning either pregnancy I would have quit before I got pregnant. The first came after I was told that I could never get pregnant so was totally unexpected. The 2nd was after 6 yrs of no birth control and many doctors telling me it would just never happen again. 12 years between the 2, at least they won't ever argue about who gets the car tonight

. Doctors said that there are more miscarriages due to stress than there are problems with a few cigs a day, especially since the physical problems I have are exacerbated by stress. The research I did said that the main thing smoking a few a day would cause would be smaller babies and since hubby was a 10 lb baby and I'm only 5 feet tall I figured that might have been helpful

. Hubby is 6' 7" tall and I don't even notice how funny we look together until I see pictures of us. I would advise women who are trying to get pregnant to quit definitely though. I just wasn't ready to risk miscarraige from stress when the chance of getting pregnant again was so slim. Thankfully, I ended up with 2 beautiful healthy kids that I only want to strangle occassionaly

. They are 17 and 5 now and I can't figure out which age is more annoying from day to day. I managed to switch from analogs to e-cig during the summer with both of them home all day to drive me crazy, so something about the e-cig works!