I was going to send this as a PM...but after the replies, I don't feel it deserves the secrecy.
Don't really know where to start this, guess I want to say I'm embarrassed that I posted my issue with the site in Dayvid's
thread. I didn't want to open a 3rd topic on it. I agree that he showed a lack of maturity and went a bit overboard.
Of the tons and tons of people that go to the site, how many of them experience problems and never complete the order. Like I said in my post, the site dumped my cart after idle for 5 mins. That shouldn't happen. A first impression is everything. Maybe the site does "hiccup" on the other people, and they just navigate away from it. Maybe you're not concerned about the potential loss of revenue from this. I sure you guys do just fine.
To state "This is all VERY VERY common" .... it's not. The last time I had so much trouble with a site was the last time the lavatanks were sold here. But at least then there were hundreds of people hitting refresh every second they could. The servers couldn't handle the load. I seriously doubt your site sees that type of activity.
Chris posted "Once every now and then someone contacts us and tells us they are experiencing a problem placing an order on the website" and then states "The problems many times (not always) end up being some kind of compatibility problem between the browser the customer is using". -- If there is a compatibility issue with IE or Firefox, fix it, or let us know what the problem is on our end so we can.
That statement from Chris shows that there are more than 3 people having a problem. Blaming it on your customers is not the solution.