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I've got two little ones, I know how both of you feel...
There is a compromise... " let me fix my lunch then I'll watch them while I eat. If they need anything it's all you..."
She gets a moment to use the bathroom, change the laundry...etc... you still get lunch in a timely manor...
I don't know your lady, but it did work for me with my (then, but not now) wife...
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I know appearances on a forum can be deceiving but, you seem to be a very active parent and partner. I doubt you will not help out. Doesn't sound like the 'you' I have come to know.
I know I sometimes do that to DH when he comes home from the truck. I just hit him right between the eyes with the things I cannot get done on my own. On the other side, I KNOW how much I hate when that happens to me. Let me get in the door, put things down, take my shoes off, get a cold drink and just rest a minute. THEN, tell me all the stuff that I need to know. SOOO, I try really, really hard never to hit him with anything but "HI, I missed you, can I get you a glass of ice water, do you need help getting stuff out of the car?"
It is difficult sometimes because I am running around, chasing my tail and I all I want to do is yell HELP at the top of my lungs. I have found that a few minutes of consideration makes a huge difference in whole day. Maybe sharing this with wifey will help a bit. You were starved, she was overwhelmed. You saw food and a bit of a breather, she saw a savior. Gotta get those two perspectives more in line with each other and still make everyone happy getting their needs met. It can be done. Just takes both sides working on it.
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If you are interested, ill happily make ya some
i like it, but my first batch wasn't strong enough, i gotta up the percentage. Compromise i am good at. and I am happy that she has taken this on (tho i didnt ask her to) it keeps her busy, she make a little (very little) money, and doesnt have to part with the boy. i just needed to lay out my boundaries so that she isnt loading even more things on top of my full plate.
Thats how i feel, its her gig, not mine. granted it hasnt become an inconvienance yet. on mondays and tuesdays i have late days from 12-9pm. the kid comes over at 630am, i told wifey i didnt want to be woken up early to help out with the kid. i need my two days to sleep in (tho with Levi, i rarely get to)
And i feel ya on the swamp. my house is constantly above 80 degrees and so humid that sweat beads just standing in the kitchen. its awful and i cant wait for it to cool down. i dont forsee us spending a third summer in this place.
Thank GP! I do try to be a great parent and hubby. i think im pretty good at it, mostly
i appreciate your comments!!wifey isnt always great in high pressure situations, and i hope she didnt set her self up to be stressed out and exhausted all the time.
she could take some lessons in spousal civility from you
4: I have never been able to understand how anyone say's they love summer better than spring, fall or winter. I can put on more clothes if it is too cold, and it hardly ever is, but can't shed off enough in the heat. A few guys have told me they love summer because of the clothes that woman wear when it is hot. I have asked them all after waiting for month's, so where are they? My guess is sitting inside with the AC.
If I lived near a beach, perhaps I'd enjoy summer a bit more... spring and fall are my favorite seasons, weather-wise. Summer rocks for beaches, pools, camping and amusement parks.
5: I like to go camping during the fall, just warm enough to be comfortable during the day, cool enough at night to sleep well. Nice if you catch it at the right time with the changing of colors to the leaves. And just noticed your signature at the bottom jac1766, I really like that.
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I love September and October camping! Kids like water, though.... ;-)
Did you ROY analogues or didn't you smoke much?
I love September and October camping! Kids like water, though.... ;-)
Did you ROY analogues or didn't you smoke much?
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Howdy HB.
Oh I smoked if you are asking about the price shown in my banner. I have the same budget for vaping as was with smoking, not much.
And wow I didn't even pay attention to my own vape anniversary and already passed a year without noticing.
Oh I smoked if you are asking about the price shown in my banner. I have the same budget for vaping as was with smoking, not much.
And wow I didn't even pay attention to my own vape anniversary and already passed a year without noticing.
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I hate camping but thTs probably cause I live in a desert
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