Well I'm labled as a druggy for vapping....

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DaMulta

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i still tell folks mine is an electric cigarette.. its safe and they seem to accept the answer readily enough.. they sometime ask how it works.. but they accept what it is and what its used for..

i think its a mistake to try and hide the cigarette side of e smoking... this thread being a good example of why..

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I normally don't hide it at all, and yet sometimes I do. Yet that is really really rarely. Most people, and in fact everyone that I have ever explained it too excepted it. o

I waited for an hour, and I guess she had business at another school this morning. My mom might go talk to her for me lol....I don't know yet.



To above it's one of the school districts outside of T-Town, and I really don't want to key it right on the money. Do to the fact that there is so much campaigning here, and I don't want that affected where my son goes at. She is really nice, and with her job she is just super busy all the time as it is.
 

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I didnt read everyones response, but i ran into a similar problem with my youngest telling all his friends "my dad has this cool e-cig thing" and wanting me to show everyone. Those who did catch a glimpse would oh and ah over the light on the end. I inadvertantly fostered this by talking to my friends and wife about them with great enthusiasm, in front of my son. After he started talking about e-cigs, I also recalled talking about how delicious some of the flavors were, with him in the room. Thinking back about analogs, I didnt leave packs of smokes laying around, didnt talk about them, didnt smoke in front of him, and if he so much as picked up a .... off the ground, he would get a good scolding.

So, I slipped up as a parent and in my e-cig euphoria, I inadvertantly promoted them in front of my kids. So after a good talk, explaining why its still a drug, its still bad for you, and to never smoke because it will be hard to quit, the e-cig talk in my house is now gone. While my kids do appreciate the additional time I spend with them (would smoke outside) and the fact I dont smell like a newspaper fire anymore, they know its still bad for people and its a horrible habit and Im harming myself every drag. They now even remind me to order lower nic strength everytime they overhear me telling my wife its time to replenish the stock.

vaping has definitely changed my life for the better and I do believe its much healthier than analogs. But, it still needs treated as a vice and a bad habit...something to be avoided, in front of children. I still talk about it like its manna from heaven behind closed doors, but never again in front of kids.
 

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vaping has definitely changed my life for the better and I do believe its much healthier than analogs. But, it still needs treated as a vice and a bad habit...something to be avoided, in front of children. I still talk about it like its manna from heaven behind closed doors, but never again in front of kids.

Wow, you're right. I'm going to stop recommending them in front of little ears. Thanks for bringing that up!
 

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Good post, and I have had the same talk with mine. I have explained that it is still not a good habit to take up, but this is a better way to handle my habit.

I told him how one day some of his friends will do things that you might want to try. Yet, it would be better if you never did. Those things are fun don't get me wrong son, and that is why people start doing them. Even drugs are fun to do, and that's why people start taking them. BUT, after a while of doing them they are not fun anymore, and your body gets sick when you don't have them. You get to a point when your not normal without them, and that is not a fun way to live life. So if you don't start in the first place then you don't have the chances of ending up not being able to stop, and really hating yourself for it. In the end it's just better to say no, than to have a little fun that gets you into big time trouble later on.'

How I explained it, and I think he understood it.
 

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Good luck DaMulta - I hope your son doesn't lose a friend because of this. I think that when you explain what it really is all will be well.


I think so too, and they are still playing with each other after school. His mom, and my mom are almost in the same building. So they run a mock for a few hours. She has not stopped them playing.

I really think she thinks it was weed......It's what I would of thought.
 

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Why does this remind me of the day my then-4th-grader came home and informed me that cough drops are a drug and you can abuse them? Some coach/teacher at her elementary school had passed on that nugget of wisdom.

Wikipedia actually has a pretty decent article on e-cigarettes, though it may go into a little too much detail for your purposes. You could Google "What is an e-cigarette" and maybe find a webpage suitable for printing out, but I took a quick glance and a lot of them seem very commercial in nature. Good luck.
 

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This is why I dont vape in front of my kids. I didnt smoke in front of them either... just felt so guilty. My oldest son teases me about my 'crack pipe' if he happens to get a glance when I'm in my room. He's 17 and knows exactly what it is but the teasing of it bothers me. I wish you luck and hope they are understanding about it.
 

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I'm not big on quotes, but one stuck from long ago and so fits this situation:

“There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance—that principle is contempt prior to investigation.” Herbert Spencer

And in my experience, educators are the worst ones. Be patient and have pity.
 

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Update:


He went home, and told his Dad he should smoke what I was smoking. I had a bottle of liquid, and this black stick that I was smoking from.

One to another it looked like it was pot; just like I thought.

My mom explained it all to her, and she is kool with it.


She told her the e-cigarette is really neat. He smokes more or less Nicotine with candy flavors added into it. The mix is the same stuff they pump into hospitals air supply, and in asthma inhalers they add the Nicotine into it. You really can't smell it, and it really does not linger in the air. He tells me that he has gotten his taste, breath, and smells back from the time he started a few months ago.



She told my mom he was not supposed to say anything at all, and she really liked her. She just didn't know how to bring up the subject of what she thought I was doing.....
 
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People only hear what they want to hear, and only read what they want to read. After reading all these posts up to the fourth page, I had to go back to the OP and read his post again because something didn't sound right in all these replies so far.

He was in a Bowling Alley (with his son's friend)!!!

Even the most "F'd up" .... head isn't going to cook his or her stuff out in the open to use for everybody to watch!

This seems to be a point that a lot of people replying either didn't include in their thinking or didn't bother to read.
 

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She told her the e-cigarette is really neat. He smokes more or less Nicotine with candy flavors added into it.

Please please please try to refrain from using the word "Candy Flavor". It's terms like that that are giving vaping bad reps to the FDA as pushing them to kids. Kids like candy, and if they taste like "Candy" then the kids would like to try them. THIS IS NOT THE IMPRESSION WE NEED RIGHT NOW.

Sorry to be blunt about that, but it's a concern we should all be aware of. Other than that, glad it all turned out well, Druggie. :w00t::thumbs::p:p:p j/k
 

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Please please please try to refrain from using the word "Candy Flavor". It's terms like that that are giving vaping bad reps to the FDA as pushing them to kids. Kids like candy, and if they taste like "Candy" then the kids would like to try them. THIS IS NOT THE IMPRESSION WE NEED RIGHT NOW.

Sorry to be blunt about that, but it's a concern we should all be aware of. Other than that, glad it all turned out well, Druggie. :w00t::thumbs::p:p:p j/k

I agree. I'm still digging your idea of the "hate" flavor. :evil:
 
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