MissyG, I have and will continue to pray for you and your husband. I know about disability and marriage. I don't know of two other people that love each other more than my husband and myself, but we killed our first marriage. We even divorced. It was both of our faults. Three years after we separated and divorced, we remarried. It was a miracle from God the Father! I had Christian counseling, then he had Christian counseling, then we got counseling together. It wasn't easy, and we both know what we did/didn't do and accept the blame. It's never one sided. It takes 2 to tango. Ole! There was no unfaithfulness within our marriage or during that 3 year period, and we knew that we were still married in the eyes of God the Father. That was probably some of the darkest days I have ever had in my life. I paced many nights in my parents kitchen, holding onto the Hand of Jesus. Even though we feel stupid over our first marriage being left in ruin, their was only a 3 month period that we weren't speaking. And even though we still consider that 3 year period as a growing experience, we also consider it as part of our marriage. We've been together 27 years. 'Trust in the Lord will all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding.' Proverbs 3:5
