I think this is key, and something a lot of the sub ohm crowd needs to understand - not everyone likes a hot vape. I don't. I've been playing with my IGO, and while I do appreciate the cloud production, it's too strong for me for all day use. For that, I like a cooler vape, around 2 ohms and 8 watts.
As WattWick said, high watts can be set up to produce a hot or a cold vape. Power does however make the vape experience 'aggressive', as I think of it. Lots of vapor/flavor/TH produced very quickly. I think that's what you meant by 'too strong', but please correct me if I misunderstood. I'm vaping a dual coiled Trident at 0.6 ohms and it's a cold vape. No heat whatsoever. However I rarely take longer than a three second pull and that's when the battery is getting low.
It's not for everyone, but I love it.