I have to agree with everyone about starting off with a cheap dripping atomizer. The first RBA I tried was a genesis (Cobra), and it made me hate the idea of RBAs for a few months cause it was so fiddly and grew tired of rebuilding over and over.
Finally I got a $10 dripper. Like you, I was definitely not into dripping as my main way of vaping, but it was so easy to rebuild and so forgiving during the trial phase that I eventually got the confidence to try other styles of RBAs. On the drippers I would start with a coil wrapped around one strand of 2mm ekowool, and when I wanted to change flavor I would just remove the ekowool, rinse the whole thing, dry burn the coils, and rewick it with cotton (sterilized cotton balls from CVS, no need to boil in my humble opinion). Takes 1 minute; super convenient when trying out new flavors as you get the full flavor experience with dripping.
I've since retried genesis attys (with SS mesh and various other wicking materials) and silica tank attys. Still not crazy about genesis attys, but my Kayfun lite is the best purchase I've made since vaping (I use 2mm ekowool in those builds).
Hope you find your thang
Edit: Last thing, don't get turned off immediately by the initial flavor sometimes. I dry burn my silica/ekowool coils to test for hot spots, and that sometimes creates and weird silica-y taste at first. Without hot spots, that goes away in a few minutes or a couple of hits. Don't inhale the first couple of drags if you get that taste initially if it bothers you too much.
With cotton you can't dry burn. But you can test for hot spots by building the coil around a drill bit or any small cylindrical metal item, install and test burn, then wick the cotton through the coil. Cotton also has a cotton-y initial flavor sometimes, but that goes away even faster than the burnt silica-y taste.