Would you date a smoker?

[rzil]

on 1 hand it sounds like a recovered alcoholic dating an alcoholic but on the other hand vaping does the trick and even next to smoker you don't feel the desire to have 1 .

I guess I don't mind dating a woman who smokes and even planned to ask 1 out but I am not sure because of the smell of cigs which I now hate .... Guess if things work out with her , the first gift is going to be an ecig

 

[Lurch]

I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that it might get me hurt!!



My wife still smokes....

 

[seahawkin]

Married to one. vaping worked real well for me not so much for him. Does get me down, but keep trying.

Also don't drink but he isn't a big drinker so that works out.

 

[mogium]

Not a chance

 

[DetraMental]

I'd date a smoker. I was a smoker so I understand the addiction. Dating and living together/marriage are totally two different monsters. There are different types of smokers. I was a respectful smoker, or as respectful as I could be until I couldn't take another minute without a smoke. There are smokers who don't care if they hit an ashtray or not. There are smokers who smoke one after another without a pause. There are casual smokers. There are smokers who don't roll the window down in their car and smoke everyone out. And so forth....I guess for me it'd be about their smoking etiquette. It's just a date or two and if ya don't like it you can back out. You may be missing out on a wonderful individual who could possibly be looking for a way off those things in the future. It's your call.

 

[SingedVapor]

I would date a smoker. I think a lot of vapors (and forgive me if I offend anyone) forget that, we were all once smokers. We shouldn't look down on someone who smokes. It's a life choice. Just be supportive and accept them as they are. Don't force your equipment on them as that's the number one way to ruin any chance you might have as converting them. Don't be a snobby vapor we all were addicted to cigarettes at once

 

[Fisheeboy]

I've had two girlfriends since I started vaping. Both smokers. I had my mind on other things so the smoking or smell of smoking was not really noticed

 

[Feraloxide]

I've had two girlfriends since I started vaping. Both smokers. I had my mind on other things so the smoking or smell of smoking was not really noticed

I got you a waterfall...

You seemed a bit thirsty.

 

[Jackiej5407]

Sorry ... not being a vape snob, but I would not want to date a smoker. The smell of "old" cigs on his clothes, hair, car, home would be a real turn-off. And I remember only too well that nasty smell from 40+ yrs of smoking.

 

[CastleRat]

Hey! Is that why they invented speed dating ?

 

[danca90]

I think being in a long term relationship with someone who spends money on smokes would help me to be able to spend money on vape gear. A non smoker, non vaper would probably roll their eyes at you constantly puffing liquid.

 

[Yotdawglife]

Smoking don't mess with the strange ya dig?

 

[RosaJ]

What if he/she is a non-smoker but the biggest control freak or nagger in your circle of acquaintances? Whatever happened to getting to know the person not the labels...

 

[ian91]

I would but my wife won't let me!!!!

 

[Fisheeboy]

What if he/she is a non-smoker but the biggest control freak or nagger in your circle of acquaintances? Whatever happened to getting to know the person not the labels...

Yep, in all seriousness I'm looking for "the one" and if she happens to be a smoker then so be it.

 

[Nikkita6]

Ummmm ... that is hard to say. I wouldn't want to date a smoker at this point, but it would really depend on the person, and as Detramental said, what their smoking habits are like. For me to absolutely say no, would be hypocritical because I used to be a smoker, who dated non smokers ... but I would not "want" to.

If he was open to vaping, that would certainly increase his chances, and if he is disposed toward "hobbies", then he chances will increase exponentially

 

[young gotti]

yes i have in the past dated a smoker as i vaped....i didn't care, all my friends smoke around me but she felt bad about doing it, she started vaping..then went back to smoking....we're no longer together but i think she started vaping again

i'm dating a girl who doesn't smoke or vape...i vape and sort of feel bad, as i want to quit vaping eventually i'm still getting used to 6mg and find myself reaching for the device

 

[spartanstew]

Define "date"

 

[Thrasher]

When I first started vaping I thought I could, but I can't - the smell, the ash trays the constant "oh wait i have to stop and get more cigs before we go" the cough or raspy throat, and the nagging fear of deteriorating health, while I have become more active, more healthy. I personally cant be with someone and quietly watch them destroy their health in front of me.

 

[rzil]

Define "date"

with the intention of more than a fling