Hi jlove,
I've only lurked on this site until I read your post and decided to register so I could reply. I felt a connection to you since I was exactly where you are a month ago.
You are SO right. All this info is overwhelming but it was worth it for me, I hope for you, too. I bought my first e-cig at a mall kiosk last month and quit real cigs over the next 3 days. I would NOT suggest the model I purchased, the "Fifty-One Trio" by vapor-corp.com. I spent $190 for the starter kit, extra battery, cartridges, etc. I could tell within a day that it didn't have enough umph, you know? It didn't taste real enough, not enough vapor and had a plastic aftertaste. I could have gotten a comparable starter kit online for about $40. Hindsight is 20/20, right?
After many hours of reading in this forum, watching YouTube videos, etc. I searched Craigslist for electronic cigs and found a guy that had a modified e-cig for sale. It's a higher voltage (5v) so it's got more power, more vapor, more taste. He sold it to me for half-price and included new atomizers, cartridges, juice samples - everything. The best deal was all the knowledge he shared.
You can find modified e-cigs online but they don't look like real cigarettes so they might not be a fit for you. You can make any kind of e-cig that you get work better with good juice and a little know-how. YouTube and this site are great resources. Vaportalk.com is good too but not as many users. Search your specific e-cig model for tips and tricks to get the most out of it. I did that with the 51 Trio from the mall. Using a guy's tips from YouTube worked wonders for my Trio. I would have never known to put my finger over one of the air holes and to cup my hand around the end to get more power/flavor/vapor. It worked!
Here are a few tips I've learned:
Search online for a promo-code before making a purchase. I found a code for half-off juices and 10% or more off other supplies and e-cigs
If you buy an e-cig and change your mind, try to stick with the same # like 510, 901 or whatever. That way your supplies will fit your new e-cig.
Dripping directly onto an atomizer works better than cartridges for taste and vapor
Pre-filled cartridges don't seem to last long. I have a better result buying empty cartridges and filling myself.
Depending on the voltage and e-cig you're using, juices taste different
The double-flavored juices are best in my opinion. I like to taste the flavor rather than just get a hint of it so I only buy double flavor.
I'm not using much of the tobacco-flavored juices. I bought too many. I thought I would 'need' to taste tobacco but I don't.
I enjoy the juice from Sweet-vapes.com, the peach and english toffee from bluemistvaping.com, and several from tteliquids.com. I do NOT recommend wetyourstick.com for juices. Really awful tasting for me but great customer service. I might buy other supplies from them. I read a lot of good stuff about strictlyejuice.com. I didn't enjoy the flavors I got.
Hope something here helped. Best of luck to you
Jen