Got my tax return sorted out. I went over to tax lady's office. She checked my ID.ME PIN and it was the same as the one on my return. She called the help desk and it is still not accepting calls to a human. Then she decided to check my last rejection and see if there was an error code or some other clue and discovered my return was marked accepted. So after I updated my PIN it took a week for the new number to make its way the part of the system that validates returns.
The IRS help desk system seems to have got overwhelmed and shut down.