Andria, it's all relative On the subject of control freaks... let's say you are in a bar, and the bar allows vaping. There are 100 people in the bar, and 99 of them have no issue with your vaping and it is not bothering them. One person goes up to the manager or a bartender, behind your back, complaining. You are now asked to stop vaping. You don't even know who it is was, or if you really bothered them in any way other than the fact they don't want to even see this behavior they object to.
Now... is that the ultimate in control or not? Doe sit bother anyone else as much as it bothers me?
That happened to me several times the past 9 months or so, so it is a real thing with me, not theoretical.
It would make me FIGHTING mad... and I'd be looking around to see who had the smug self-righteous look on their face! So that on my way out, I could blow a HUGE cloud right at them!
Andria