Seems quite a few people have forgotten there are always two sides to every story. It's a real shame in many ways, because usually the one being more vocal is always the one people believe, instead of stopping and wondering, what brought on this conflict, and what did the vocal party say back to the silent one? At least it's a good indication of the quality of a person, one who sees side a, side b, and all the is unsaid inbetween are the ones worth your time and friendship.