A scolding is better than going back to smelling like an ashtray and everything that goes with that.
Seriously, you're trying to stay off cigarettes, which are much more expensive.
The thing with her is that she wont allow a purchase unless she positively is effected. For example. I havent been able to get to the vape store in 2 weeks because we have "spend too much money" now its "hey i broke my mini pro tank. Lets go to the vape shop monday" i now call her tank breaker as this is the second mini pro tank she has broken in 2 months