That is really weird.... Are you saying the right "secret" words as you mix? You know, "Let this mix not be affected my [insert whatever here]? Because that sounds so strange. I actually have NO advice because that has never been my DIY experience. I kind of approached it with the attitude I'd be fantastic at it (unlike coilbuilding and RTAs, which was a lot harder, and I expected it to be). Oh, I could get all mystical and quote the guy who "said stuff" to purified water, nice things and mean things, and it somehow "caught the vibe" and changed its structure, accordingly only I'm not exactly sure I believe in that guy and his pics.
I will say there's a possibility that we all carry around frequencies or WHATEVER that determines our strengths. I mean, I can wilt a plant by looking at it, I have what you call a "black thumb." My dad and my kid are both excellent gardeners. I am not. Fortunately there are supermarkets for that thing.
I was complaining to my mom once that I CANNOT bake bread, the husband can and even supervised me, because I was getting all frustrated, and he said I did everything "right." Only it came out a shriveled mess. I was pretty disappointed with my efforts and told my mom how I felt like a failure and couldn't bake bread. Her response, "Anna, LOTS of people can make bread. You don't have to feel bad if you can't, given you can obtain it at any supermarket, in fact feel good that it's just BREAD." LOL, I was really upset by my failure to complete bread-making, ever, but in the end, she was right. I must have done something horrible to yeast in my youth that I cannot remember....
Anna