The reason I am hesitant is that anyone with decent writing skills can talk somewhat like an adult on the net. Even 5 year olds have smart phones. How do I know if anyone is who they say they are? All I have is an avatar and what the person chooses to enter in the bio, if anything, when someone FIRST arrives here. A 12 year old with a connection and email account can visit ECF. Signing up for me was very easy and I could be 14
This is a very good point. You mention avatars. Well, my avatar is an avatar in a virtual world. Many there are not who they say they are. Even age-verification or voice communication aren't any guarantee of anything from age to gender and all points in between.
But should we try to decide here? I don't think the OP's age was ever at issue anyway. But even if it was... Is that something we really want to be playing with and calling attention to? After all - many love to order supplies etc from online vendors. Online vendors who can't really and truly verify anything.... See what I mean? Thin ice...