Quite possible that it's a play to get you mobile once more. Frustration is a powerful motivator in that situation. We do eventually get to the point where "If it's gonna get done right, I'm gonna have to do it myself."
aspergers and vaping.
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Quite possible that it's a play to get you mobile once more. Frustration is a powerful motivator in that situation. We do eventually get to the point where "If it's gonna get done right, I'm gonna have to do it myself."
Hehehe, I hear that. The observant nature definitely keeps other people on their toes, makes us tough to slip one over on.
That might apply to me...somewhat...maybe. I can be pretty oblivious to a lot, though.
My wife is OCD but all forms are not alike. She is a clutterbug and abhors a cleared table or floor. Observant? Not really for her.
I finally gave up and just keep my little hidey lair neat.
I finally gave up and just keep my little hidey lair neat.
Well, for me, the PTSD carries hypervigilance due to the type of trauma that brought it on, and that just feeds the hell out of the OCD and gives it a really intense focus. Takes a lot of effort for me to trust enough to stop waiting for the other shoe to drop. I can relate to your wife, though. In some ways, I'm a neat freak (Put my video games in specific order on the shelves and can get quite testy when they're mixed up. Put it back where you got it!), but in others, I'm a total slob (Got no problem piling things a mile high if I'm in the process of using them, or will need them shortly). It's definitely got it's quirks.
Yeah, OCD can have many widely varying manifestations. I'm a big time clutterbug, partly because when I clean, I get way too perfectionist about it and end up with a small corner spotless, orderly and highly disinfected, and that only after a lot of hard, stressful work.
My wifes issues started at about 40 yrs old. I found out it is a family trait on her mothers side of the family for mental issues to show up about then.
She was neat when we married and so was I but after years of fighting I just gave up. Very embarrassing for my family and friends members to come visiting...
One reason I have tended to hermitize...
She was neat when we married and so was I but after years of fighting I just gave up. Very embarrassing for my family and friends members to come visiting...
One reason I have tended to hermitize...
Modwompers, tootle puffers,
Is this hogwarts?
(I despise those movies/books)
never seem the tfv4? I'll look into it.
@axiom1 jump the mail carrier tomorrow and demand your present!
And make sure to froth at the mouth a little.
(That way there is no doubt if they do not deliver soon, someone's gonna get bit on the leg)
Yes.
Lol indeed!
Is this hogwarts?
(I despise those movies/books)
never seem the tfv4? I'll look into it.
@axiom1 jump the mail carrier tomorrow and demand your present!
And make sure to froth at the mouth a little.
(That way there is no doubt if they do not deliver soon, someone's gonna get bit on the leg)
lol
Yes.
Lol indeed!
I was shocked. Yes, shocked when my wife informed me I am ocd.
Ocd. Ocd. (Small joke. Sorry)
Well, I'm not a clean freak.
I don't tap 3 times... ... ...
Lol.
Turns out, I am ocd.
To some varying degree anyway.
(When I take over the world... ... ...ooooo mammy!)
Modwompers, tootle puffers,
Is this hogwarts?
(I despise those movies/books)
never seem the tfv4? I'll look into it.
@axiom1 jump the mail carrier tomorrow and demand your present!
And make sure to froth at the mouth a little.
(That way there is no doubt if they do not deliver soon, someone's gonna get bit on the leg)
Yes.
Lol indeed!
OK. That response was for the @NoFumus
Emoticon.
No for this one...
I'm too tired to fix it.
So... Good night!
P.s.
If anyone remembers yesterday's messages,
The projects were. . . Annoyingly annoying.
Lol.
Aw. He's cute.Good night.
I just vaped Un-juiced cotton!
I think I might be dying?
Tell my dog he was adopted.
(Nofumussss.... It taste so. Bad. Yuck.)
Lol goodnight!
I'm surprised I haven't done that yet, given that multi-tasking and I don't agree. And for me, multi-tasking could be living & breathing.
Stressing. Got a big project handed to me yesterday with a Friday deadline. This is a HUGE tsql query and mentally grueling. Wish me luck. I'll be chewing gobs of nic gum since I can't vape at work. I really felt like smoking last night. Even dreamed that I did. But I woke up and grabbed my trusted vamo.
With coffee cup empty, it's time to hit the ground running. Hope I have hair left after this.
With coffee cup empty, it's time to hit the ground running. Hope I have hair left after this.
Stressing. Got a big project handed to me yesterday with a Friday deadline. This is a HUGE tsql query and mentally grueling. Wish me luck. I'll be chewing gobs of nic gum since I can't vape at work. I really felt like smoking last night. Even dreamed that I did. But I woke up and grabbed my trusted vamo.
With coffee cup empty, it's time to hit the ground running. Hope I have hair left after this.
I know you like the money, but that is exactly why I would never program for a Company -- too many deadlines for my liking -- If I can't program at my own speed and style, then it's not worth it to me --- not even for monetary gain. (that's just me though) -- Hope you get the deadline met with low stress. Those are the times when a Xanax comes in handy --- the problem with that though is the stuff tends to make a person a bit sleepy, which would be bad in your situation.
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